Our Story
Built by someone who has seen what unpreparedness costs
ALIGN was born from years of ministry, coaching, and the recurring observation that most relationship pain is rooted in entering partnership before being ready.
Thomas Marks
Founder, Author, Coach
The conviction behind ALIGN
After years working with singles and couples in ministry and coaching contexts, Thomas Marks noticed a pattern: the people who struggled most in relationships weren't lacking in faith — they were lacking in preparation. They hadn't done the honest self-work required to be a healthy partner.
That observation led to writing Relationship Fitness — a framework built on six domains of personal development that form the bedrock of relational health.
ALIGN is the digital home of that framework — a platform where preparation is treated as the first step, not an afterthought.
Our Mission
To equip Christians to enter relationships whole — not hoping the relationship will make them whole.
The world tells you to find the right person. We believe you must first become the right person. ALIGN exists to help you do that work — honestly, systematically, and in community with others on the same journey.
What we believe
Preparation First
You cannot offer someone a version of yourself you have not yet become. We believe every person must do the inner work before pursuing connection.
Faith as Foundation
This platform is built for Christians who take their faith seriously — not as a checkbox, but as the governing principle of their entire life, including relationships.
Honest Self-Assessment
The Six Pillars framework is designed to reveal gaps, not just validate strengths. Growth requires honesty.
Community Over Algorithm
ALIGN is not a swipe app. Every match decision is rooted in alignment — shared values, readiness, and purpose.
Ready to begin?
Take the Six Pillars assessment and see exactly where you stand.