The Framework
Six Pillars of Relationship Fitness
Before connecting with someone else, you must know where you stand in six critical areas of your own life.
Spiritual Fitness
How your faith shows up in daily life, decisions, and relationships.
Mental Fitness
How you think, respond, and handle pressure with clarity and humility.
Physical Fitness
How you steward your body through movement, health, and daily habits.
Financial Fitness
How you handle money, plan wisely, and live with generosity.
Appearance Fitness
How you present yourself with intention, dignity, and confidence.
Intimacy Fitness
How you approach emotional and physical boundaries in relationship.
“At ALIGN, we align before we match.”
How It Works
Grow first. Connect after.
ALIGN is not a swipe app. It is a preparation platform built for Christians who are serious about becoming the right person before finding one.
Request an Invite
ALIGN is invitation only. Contact us to request access and we will review your request personally.
Complete Your Assessment
Work through the Six Pillars self-assessment to get an honest picture of where you stand and where you need to grow.
Grow, Then Connect
Build your profile, engage the framework, and connect with others who are serious about preparation before partnership.
Meet the Founder
Thomas Marks
Founder & Author
Thomas Marks is the founder of ALIGN and the author of Relationship Fitness. Led by God to build a platform where Christians could grow together — not just read about growth alone — Thomas created ALIGN on the conviction that the person you become determines the relationship you attract.
What members are saying
“ALIGN helped me realize I wasn't ready for the relationship I was asking God for. Working through the pillars changed everything.”
— Marcus T.
“This isn't another dating app. It's a platform that actually helped me grow before trying to connect with someone.”
— Jasmine R.
“The framework is grounded in scripture and practical wisdom. I've recommended it to everyone in my small group.”
— David O.
The Book
Relationship Fitness
The book that started it all. Thomas Marks walks you through each pillar with scripture, practical exercises, and honest self-assessment tools to prepare you for the relationship God has for you.
Grow before you go.
The person you become determines the relationship you attract.
Explore the Six Pillars →